{"id":136,"date":"2022-05-29T11:24:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-29T11:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alazcanbolat.com\/?p=136"},"modified":"2023-06-13T00:46:41","modified_gmt":"2023-06-12T21:46:41","slug":"z-kusagi-is-hayati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alazcanbolat.com\/en\/z-kusagi-is-hayati\/","title":{"rendered":"Z Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ve \u0130\u015f Hayat\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Her ku\u015fak, i\u00e7ine b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman dilimi kadar kendinden \u00f6nceki ku\u015faklar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7lerden ve olaylardan da etkileniyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce \u015feklimize ve karakterimize sadece yeti\u015fti\u011fimiz d\u00f6nem de\u011fil bizi yeti\u015ftirenlerin ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 da etki ediyor. Yani bendeniz Alaz Han olarak Tulgan\u2019\u0131n (2013), \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na g\u00f6re bir Z Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 veya Ad\u0131g\u00fczel\u2019in (2014), \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na g\u00f6re Gen\u00e7-Y ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131y\u0131m. Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131na daha yak\u0131n hissetti\u011fimi s\u00f6ylesem de bu \u00e7ocuklu\u011fum i\u00e7in tam olarak b\u00f6yle de\u011fil.<\/p>

Mersin\u2019in \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir k\u00f6y\u00fcnde ilk 5 s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131m\u0131 k\u00f6y okulunda okudum. Bilgisayar ve cep telefonu ile \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Ancak buna ra\u011fmen sokak k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc ile b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcm; saklamba\u00e7, yakar top, bilye oynayarak ge\u00e7ti \u00e7ocuklu\u011fum. Yan mahalleden arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z olmas\u0131 bir networkt\u00fc, top ko\u015ftururken o en kritik anda karar verip do\u011fru hamleye ko\u015fmak ya\u015famsal bir beceriydi. \u00dcniversiteye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda bunca h\u0131zla geli\u015fen ve de\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnyaya ayak uydurma h\u0131z\u0131m ve belki de bu kadar \u00e7ok k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc tan\u0131ma f\u0131rsat\u0131 yakalamam beni iki jenerasyon aras\u0131nda bir yerde b\u0131rakt\u0131. \u015eu an de\u011ferlerimin ve hayata bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131n Z Jenerasyonuna ne kadar \u00e7ok yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark edebiliyorum.<\/p>

Di\u011fer taraftan Baby Boomers ve X Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131na ait ebeveynler taraf\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcld\u00fcm. Ben Galatasaray\u2019\u0131n UEFA\u2019y\u0131 al\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, Sertap Erener\u2019in Eurovision\u2019\u0131 kazan\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131\u00a0(T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin sosyo-k\u00fclt\u00fcrel olarak en iyi d\u00f6nemlerinden birisi denilebilir<\/em>\u00a0\ud83e\udd72) canl\u0131 canl\u0131 izleme f\u0131rsat\u0131 bulup her bilgiye birka\u00e7 saniyede ula\u015fabilme l\u00fcks\u00fcne sahipken; onlar, so\u011fuk sava\u015f sonras\u0131 teknoloji ile \u00e7ok yeni tan\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Burada bahsetti\u011fim geni\u015f bir d\u00f6nem i\u00e7inde ya\u015fanan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir olay. Ancak sadece bunlarla k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 de\u011fil; bir\u00e7ok noktada d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve tutumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 etkileyen ekonomik, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel ve sosyal olaylar mevcut. Elbette ki bunlar\u0131n getirileri de var.<\/p>

Ku\u015faklar\u0131n her birinin kendisine has karakteristik \u00f6zellikleri, de\u011fer ve tutumlar\u0131 bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve zay\u0131f y\u00f6nlerinin oldu\u011fu s\u00f6ylenebilir. (\u00dcnl\u00fc, G. ve \u00c7i\u00e7ek, H. 2019) T\u00fcm d\u00fcnyay\u0131 etkisi alt\u0131na alan ekonomik ve sosyal krizlerin etkilerini ebeveynlerim de ben de ya\u015fad\u0131k ve ya\u015f\u0131yoruz. Ancak bu durum olaylar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmemize bile \u00e7ok net bir \u015fekilde yans\u0131yor. Evrim Kuran, Telgraftan Tablete kitab\u0131nda bu durumu \u00e7ok g\u00fczel akatr\u0131yor:\u00a0\u201cX Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nce ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olay\u0131m ki, sonra zaten mutlu olurum diyor. Y Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7ek ya\u015fam\u0131n dokusunun korundu\u011fu, \u00f6nce mutlu oldu\u011fu ve insan olarak hak etti\u011fi de\u011feri g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir ortamda var olmak istiyor. Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in \u00f6nce mutlu olmam laz\u0131m diyor. Sebebi \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k: \u0130nsan kendinde olmayan\u0131n pe\u015findedir.\u201d<\/em><\/p>

Sadece bu a\u00e7\u0131klamadan yola \u00e7\u0131karak ebeveynlerimle \u00e7ok net bir \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131 an\u0131ms\u0131yorum.\u00a0\u201cSen \u015fimdi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f, ilerde kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r 30\u2019undan sonra evin, araban olur rahat rahat ya\u015fars\u0131n.\"\u00a0<\/em>Ben ise\u00a0iyi olma halimi<\/strong>\u00a0(wellbeing) ve\u00a0de\u011ferleri<\/strong>\u00a0\u00f6nemseyen bir yerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 ve o\u00a0kurum k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc<\/strong>n\u00fcn bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmay\u0131 hayal ediyorum. \u0130\u015f ba\u015fvurular\u0131mda, m\u00fclakatlar\u0131mda \u0130nsan Kaynaklar\u0131\u2019na sordu\u011fum sorular da hep bu y\u00f6nde:<\/p>